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Tips for dating younger men

You may have heard that confidence sets the tone of any function we undertake in our lives and it is true.

I can say with some authority that most of us young men have short attention spans so pleasing and retaining us can be twice a challenge – assuming you don’t just want a one nightstand. Nor is there a generic checklist to attracting one – I won’t insult your intelligence my dear reader by pretending there is; just like women, all men are different. If he doesn’t know the importance of the clitoris, teach him. The quickest and most effective way to please a man of any age is to discover what turns him on and then give it to him. However, once you get a fellow in the throes of passion he will probably stop thinking with his head, so I would recommend asking him about what turns him on when his eyes are shut tight from the sexy kisses you’re giving him or when he’s ready to do anything to keep you from stopping.

But speaking as a nineteen year old male, I have a range of sex tips based on what I know we would respond to. As an older woman he may even see you as a teacher of sorts, I implore you to take advantage of this. It’s worth noting that if you’re having a casual, one-off encounter and you’re able to give him exactly what he wants he will most likely be back more.

9) Don’t be afraid to try a little role play There’s nothing wrong with a good role play fantasy!

A younger man who has a vested interest in mature women will almost certainly have fantasies about them.

Drawing on the advice I’ve already given, the most erotic thing a someone can ever do for their partner is recognise their fetishes and fantasies, accepting them and then enacting them to the best of one’s ability.

If he has a fantasy about being spanked by a teacher – act it out, if you have a fantasy about being rescued by a sexy young firefighter and his massive hose – act it out.

No matter the age difference (mine is almost 9 years! They adore your mind, your ability to make strong decisions, a well-kept body and even a few gray hairs. It brings a continual spark to the whole relationship and gives each of you something to always think about. I might even throw in a road trip or two, just to make sure that we’ve covered all the bases of our togetherness and can actually stand each other after spending so much time in the car. As long as I love him and show it, patience comes through in spades.