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Dating dynamics

They are overwhelmed with attention, and begin to date multiple people, many of whom may be far more experienced in polyamory.

Do you know what her No looks like in her body, feels like in her breath, or sounds like in her voice?

Within the realm of honest non monogamy- and polyamory especially- I think that the significance of the metamour relationship is too often overlooked and underplayed.

It is strangely too easy to ignore the awesomeness of having your partners bond, and to be oblivious to the multitudes of relationships that come hand in hand when you are in multiple relationships with other people in multiple relationships.

Tarnished by many Magpies, I can bite my tongue no longer. And no one deserves to be tarnished by ignorance to what’s happening beneath the surface.

This is a letter for the corvid creatures who swoop in on the polyamory novices. I will be blunt: This new shiny person is not here for you to objectify.

Have you stopped to think what is going on for someone when, fresh out of long term monogamy, they want to date people in positions of power, knowledge, and influence?

You may not see yourself as the ‘cool kid’, but if you seem like you have your shit together with polyamory, and talk about it with confidence, then she may be seeing you as the cool kid.

I enjoy not just meeting my partners’ other partners, I also desire to form friendships with them and have an enthusiastically positive relationship with them.