Start Dating around

Dating around

In the future, from the first date, let the guy know what you want and need: exclusivity. Even if you’ve missed your opportunity to set your boundaries on the first date, do it now.

Finally he tells you that he doesn’t see a marriage potential here.

Perhaps, in the end you didn’t either, so no harm, right? If you had dated exclusively, both of you would have come to this place sooner and not wasted precious time.

“Glustony” signals an unhealthy appetite for sexual conquest. If you're serious about playing the field and a girl seems hell-bent on changing your mind, it’s time to look for the exit. If you’ve brought someone home recently and have another rendezvous stacked and circling, police your quarters and 86 anything that can’t be explained away as your own. If you’re into sport sex to impress your pals with your stats, again, you’re in it for the wrong reasons.

Yes, there are plenty of fish in the sea and no, there’s nothing wrong with being on a seafood diet, but the opposite sex is not an all-you-can-eat buffet. Intellectually, a girl might be fine with being one of several, but no one likes having their nose rubbed in someone else’s dirty panties. Loose lips, while commendable for other oral endeavors, can bite you in the ass during the post-game playback analysis.

With too many choices people can’t make up their minds and often don’t, leading to lower sales. The Tinder Revolution leads to frustration and emptiness.

When someone is dating multiple people and not focusing on you, time is passing by.

(Hint: If it bothers you to the point of madness that one of your ladies is seeing other men, you may be closer to monogamy than you think.) Dating multiple partners in the microcosm of your employment biosphere or local after-work habitat can lead to an unsafe imbalance in the environment.

Again, in theory, women may agree to be members of your far-flung tribe of lovers, but proximity breeds territoriality, and has the potential to put your sex life, your happiness, your safety Really, do we even have to remind you about this one? A) It’s the right thing to do, and B) karma a way of hunting bad dogs down.

Just last month, I met a cute guy and we went out and had so much fun together. Now it’s been a month and we’ve gone out four times.

The last time I saw him, I asked him if we could define our relationship. I decided that everything was probably okay until yesterday when my brother went to a coffee shop and saw him with another girl.

Studies show that too many options actually make it harder to choose.