Start Dating nowadays

Dating nowadays

In modern countries, we have countless options presented to us every single day.

Everything was a bit more straightforward – predictable, maybe. Generation-Y doesn’t have it easy when it comes to dating and relationships.

It just lets your feelings be known and it may allow for the other person to follow suit if they feel the same way.

This is better than asking"do you want to be my girlfriend?

That isn’t to say that they never happened – but not nearly as regularly as they do amongst our generation. Much of the time we skip the whole dating thing and go straight for the goal. Sure, you’re not just having sex, you’re hanging out as well. You’re clearly not just a booty-call, but are you together? Apparently there is now a difference – exclusivity isn’t always promised. Well, I do know why, but it’s so incredibly silly that I find it revolting that it has even invaded my own life.

If nothing else, we are a pretty efficient generation. Because most of our relationships start with sex before they turn into something substantial, it can be rather difficult figuring out where exactly that line between the two is located. With all these different levels of togetherness that we’ve invented, it’s no surprise that many times we’ll find ourselves with a person and not know how to introduce him or her to friends or family. You’d think that the FB status would make things easier, but until you know for sure, then FB won’t know -- and that can make for awkward conversations.

We all want to leave a legend behind, to be remembered.

This may not differ from previous generations, but we are the first generation that believes we can accomplish such a feat. This is all great, except that a relationship takes a lot of time, commitment and often sacrifice. Nowadays both men and women have dreams they are following.

Although, this isn’t to say that we couldn’t ease up in areas where we should ease up.